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Mr. Parker: Please remove this if you think it's too much or "taking over" the comment section

1) These very events and claims are the very reason a lot of men are avoiding women altogether. It is becoming clear that ANY sexual conduct with a woman can result in problems for a man even when that man did absolutely nothing wrong. A frat got kicked off campus, two men were expelled; two suspended - for having consensual sex with an intoxicated woman.

2) Women are learning they can escape accountability for sexual conduct merely by falsely claiming "rape" or "SA".

3) This happened because, as so often happens, the woman's sexual experience didn't turn out precisely as she had wanted it to. She didn't get to have the sex she wanted to have. She didn't get the man she wanted precisely how she wanted him. The sex was disappointing or didn't live up to the hype. She felt bad afterwards. She didn't get the relationship she wanted. Whatever. And now, because she feels bad, she is going to make everyone else feel bad. Because she didn't get what she wanted, now the men involved have to "pay".

4) Events like this and Lindsaymania will lead society to start restricting women's "rights" particularly in the sexual realm. It's becoming increasingly clear women simply aren't handling sexual responsibility well. Past generations understood this and dealt with it by putting down hard guardrails on women's sexual conduct. Usually the enforcers were fathers, uncles, older brothers, and other responsible men in her family. We all know what those "rules" were: Dad gets veto power and approval power over any man spending time with his daughters; and daughter definitely doesn't get to spend alone time with a man unless dad blesses it. Husband decides who wife can spend time with; husband decides how family life goes.

If women can't be responsible for their own sexual conduct; then women shouldn't have any authority to decide these things for themselves. If women are permitted less authority, then any rights they have are dependent ultimately on whatever men are responsible for them: First their fathers; then their husbands; then their brothers or adult sons.

If men ultimately are to be held responsible for their own conduct AND ALSO for the conduct of any woman they have sex with; then men should have full authority for all of it and women should have no authority. That's the only reasonable conclusion to be drawn here.

Is this really what women want? Because they're sure acting like it.

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